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Help recover and preserve our WWME history

Jack & Karen Baker
with Jan & Lee Kremer

The history of Worldwide Marriage Encounter may vary depending on who is telling it. The history included here is, to the best of our knowledge, accurate for the years it covers. We would like to gather as much information from you, our readers, to add to the history. Many of the people who created the history of our movement are no longer involved and we may never reach them without your help. If you know some of these people please help us gather information from them. We want to hear their stories and publish them in eMatrimony in an attempt to gather and confirm as much of the history as we can. Please send any of the history that you can gather to . In an attempt to confirm the history we ask that you send information about the source, who they are, when encountered any additional resources they might have to confirm their story. We ask that if it is possible that we be given email addresses or telephone numbers of the resources. Thank you for joining us in this effort to document our family history.

Our Ancestry

1952 – Father Gabriel Calvo, a young Spanish Diocesan Laborer Priest began developing a series of conferences for married couples. For approximately ten years teams of couples, who became known as “The Marriage Teams of Pope Pius XIII”, presented conferences throughout Spain.
1962 – Father Calvo presented the conferences as a weekend retreat to 28 couples in his native Barcelona. The experience was a great success and rapidly spread throughout Spain as the Encuentro Conjugal.
1967 – A Mexican couple and an American missionary priest from Mexico presented the Weekend to seven couples and a couple of priests at the close of a Christian Family Conference (CFM) Convention at Notre Dame University. Encuentro Conjugal received the active support of Pat & Patty Crowley, founders of CFM, who invited Spanish couples and priests to come to the United States to present Weekends in both Spanish and English.
1968 – 50 couples and 29 priests accepted the invitation and presented Weekends in the United States. Fr. Chuck Gallagher attended a Weekend in New Jersey and the dream of the Worldwide Marriage Encounter Movement began.
1969 – In January 1969 American couples and priests are conducting Weekends. Jamie & Arline Whalen, a New Jersey couple, called together couples and priests who had presented two or more of what was now known as Marriage Encounter Weekends to form a National Executive Board. Marriage Encounter remained affiliated with CFM and met for a second time during a CFM Convention late in 1969 at Notre Dame. This meeting was convened to develop guidelines for the Weekend and to coordinate the development of the movement in the U. S. and Canada.

Worldwide Marriage Encounter

1969 - Fr. Chuck Gallagher, two other priests and couples from New York give 22 Weekends. As each Weekend finished they learned more and made changes to make the Weekends even better. Worldwide Marriage Encounter (WWME) begins developing under the leadership of Fr. Charles Gallagher, S.J. and Edward & Harriet Garzero. The songs from “Man from LaMancha” are added to the Weekend. The Weekend went from Long Island, NY to Buffalo and Sioux City, Iowa. The Marriage Encounter symbol consisting of a heart symbolizing life, the two circles husband and wife and the cross symbolizing the church is created. The song I’ll Never Find Another You (There’s A New World Somewhere) by the Seekers is adopted as “our song”.
1970 – New York reaches out to Grand Forks, North Dakota. The importance of Daily Dialogue and the sharing of our feelings are recognized as the important cornerstones of Worldwide Marriage Encounter.
1971 – A decision is made to “encounter” the United States. The gift of WWME spreads through Pennsylvania, New Jersey and North Carolina, and through September of 1972 the following cities – Washington D.C., Boston, Detroit, St. Louis, San Antonio, New Orleans, Kansas City, Chicago, Los Angeles, Santa Barbara, and San Francisco. The Catholic expression of WWME begins interfaith reach out to the Jewish and Episcopal denominations.
1972 – Worldwide expansion begins with a reach out to Belgium. The first National Convention is held in Hicksville, New York. WWME begins to organize in regions within the United States. WWME is offered in England.
1973 – The “Weekend” is offered in Chile, India and Ireland. The Second National Convention is held in Hicksville, NY. The World wide Family of Worldwide Marriage Encounter is created. The first Spanish-speaking Weekend is given in Brooklyn. Due to philosophical differences two distinct programs of Marriage Encounter developed. Both exist today. One is Worldwide Marriage Encounter the other National Marriage Encounter both have the origin from Encuentro Conjugal.
1974 – The Weekend is taken to Australia, France, Japan, Mexico and Germany. Spanish speaking Worldwide Marriage Encounters begin in San Antonio, TX. and spread to Brooklyn, Los Angeles and Puerto Rico. 100,000 couples are “encountered” in the United States. The Third National Convention is held at St. John’s University in NY. A nationwide hour-by-hour Prayer Vigil for religious vocations begins with the start of the Holy Year.
1975 – The first Worldwide Convention of Worldwide Marriage Encounter is held at St. John’s Univ. in N.Y. A pilgrimage is made to Lourdes and Rome. Weekends are offered in Spain, Indonesia, Brazil and Okinawa.
1976 – The Fifth National/Second Worldwide Convention is held in Philadelphia. Worldwide Marriage Encounter has been offered to 750,000 couples. As one country reaches out to another the Weekend spreads to Sri Lanka, Taiwan, Korea, Guam, Bolivia, Holland, Yugoslavia, Peru, Columbia, Guatemala, Philippines and the Virgin Islands. WWME participates in the 41st Eucharistic Congress in Philadelphia.
1977 – Weekends are offered in Rome, Korea, (Korean Speaking), Fiji, Argentina, South Africa, Kenya and New Zealand. The first European Secretariat meeting is held in Belgium and Canada organizes their Secretariat structure.
1978 – WWME is ten years old and holds its first International Council meeting formed at Cuernavaca, Mexico with the Seven Secretariats of Asia, South Pacific, Pan-Africa, Europe, United States, Canada and Latin America. The first contact is made in Poland with Cardinal Karol Wojtyla, now Pope John Paul II.

Worldwide Marriage Encounter continues to be the strongest pro-marriage movement in the world now presented in over 87 countries and made available in twelve faith expressions.

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